ESSAY
WRITING
FREE
SEX IN INDONESIA
FITRI
009201200005
President
University
FACULTY
OF COMMUNICATION
Visual
Communication Design
2012
Sex is a natural
instinct that is owned by any sentient life in this world. Not only humans who
have sex instincts, but also including animals and plants. Sex is required to
maintain the viability of a species or a group of living beings. The main
purpose of having sex is for reproduction for purposes of regeneration which
means every living being have sex to obtain offspring in order to maintain and
preserve his lineage.
Sex activities for
Indonesia should only be done when there is already a legitimate relationship
bonds between men and women, it's called married. Sex performed outside of
marriage is a violation of the norms of the norm, be it religious norms or
norms applicable norms.
We often hear stories
of friends or friends from the news about human behavior in Indonesia this era,
which often have sex outside of marriage or commonly called free sex. Sex is
sex wild performed illegally in the sense already misappropriated in
Indonesia’s norms.
Free sex is a cultural
influence that comes from the West and in the adoption of the Indonesian people
without filters it first. Sex revolution that occurred in the United States and
Europe in the late 1960s, already almost coming into our beloved country is
through the medium of information technology and other entertainment means that
increasingly sophisticated. Now to get the video, pictures, stories and stories
about sex and other pornography is very easy. Live in the search on the
internet and visit the sites that provide the adult services in addition to
those of the adult services are not just for people aged 21 and above, but
children under one are able to access it. In addition to that adult films are
also already on sale by traders tapes and video freely. So easy it is to get
access to things that smelled of pornography results in ever increasing numbers
free sex behavior within the community.
There are several
factors that make teens involved in Indonesia will be free sex;
The first factor is
derived from a parent, because of lack of guidance and supervision from parents
to make her go wild, parents who believe too much be his son without knowing
the activity performed by the children of his son out there is the wrong
actions and prove fatal for his own son, sometimes also the children already
know that her parents gave her the freedom to behave in the way of his. but
there are also parents who plunges his own son, an example: suppose the parents
feel embarrassed if his already Senior High School or teenagers do not have couple,
parents will ask it to his son or daughter, and eventually the son or daughter
was looking for a couple, initially perhaps, go to the bookstore or to a cafe,
then slowly handrails and does not cover the possibility for doing more than
that, including free sex. Parents who are too authoritarian is also not good
for the development of the psychology of the child, when he got his freedom, he/she
would forget everything.
The second factor is
the environment or friends; the environment is very influential with our lives.
as strong as any of us defend ourselves if the environment and friends not
supporting us to do something right that tantamount to plunges herself into the
wrong things, and when that is done the person closest to us is not true does
not cover the possibility we will be affected for entry into a world that is
not either. For example: such as smoking or drug addicts who originally joined
with friends and just crank and finally could not get out again from a world
that is not good. So too with free sex that does not close the possibility of
seeing from the environment, including nearby and committing to do so.
The third factor is
money, in this era money is everything, because money becomes a benchmark
between self-esteem and honour. Thus the person who needs not met in search of
extra income in ways that are not true or sell herself to someone more capable
just to do free sex. For example: ladies night at the club who are willing to
accompany an adult man to karaoke, dancing or doing free sex.
The fourth Factor is
people who have a weak faith. Someone who does not have faith in his heart is
definitely not going to put up with the worldly temptation indeed heavy, the
slightest temptation it let alone the lure weight. For example: a person who
does not believe will be sin that will be receipt what when doing free sex
definitely don't mind to do free sex.
The fifth Factor is
addicted in doing free sex. Sex just as people was eating. It is an absolute
necessity everyone. But what if you can't be in control with good it can cause
problems, once surely will want to try again and again, just as smokers who are
addicted. For example: someone has been doing free sex once, do not close the
possibility to repeat the same thing with the same person or different people.
As mentioned above. written above is a contributing
factor of occurrence of free sex.
As we know free sex not be a good thing to do. free sex
be bad for life, this is the bad effects impact happens if doing free sex,
there are :
The first impact came from the danger of going to
physical, physical danger that can occur is exposed to the advent of gender
(sexual transmitted disease/PMS) and HIV/AIDS as well as the dangers of
unwanted early pregnancies.
An PMS is a disease that can be transmitted from person
to person through sexual contact. Someone at high risk are exposed to an PMS
when having sexual intercourse with alternating pairs well through the vagina,
oral or anal. If not treated properly, this disease can be serious for
reproductive health, such as the occurrence of infertility, blindness in
newborns and even death. Venereal disease that can occur is gonorrhea
(Gonorrhoe), King Lion (Syphilis), herpes genitalis, limfogranuloma venereum
(LGV), candidiasis, Trichomonas vaginalis, genital warts and so on.
AIDS stands
for Aquired Immuno Deficiency Syndrome. This disease is a collection of
symptoms of the disease as a result of the decline of the immune system. The
cause is the HIV virus. Own HIV stands for Human Immunodeficiency Virus. AIDS
is a disease that is one of the ways of transmission is through sexual
intercourse. In addition, HIV can be transmitted through the use of syringes
used HIV-infected people.In Indonesia most HIV/AIDS transmission much through
unsafe sexual contact as well as syringes (for drug addicts). After the HIV
virus infection occurred, initially did not show specific symptoms. Just a few
weeks after it infected people often suffer from minor illnesses like the flu
or diarrhea everyday.In the period 3-4 years later sufferers showed no symptoms
characteristic or called as a period without symptoms, at the moment sufferers
feel well and out also seem well. Afterwards, year to 5 or 6 see emerging
diarrhœa recurring, weight loss of a sudden, often thrush dimulut, and
occurring swelling in lymph glands and eventually get occurring a great variety
of infectious diseases, cancer and even death. To detect the presence of
antibodies to the virus hiv, denoting the hiv virus in body, done a blood test
by means of elisha as much as twice. Then if the result is positive,
investigation is further by way of western blot or immunofluoresensi.
The readiness of a woman to get pregnant and give birth
or have children is determined by the readiness there are : physical
preparedness, readiness of the mental/emotional/psychological and
social/economic readiness. In General, a woman said to be physically ready if
have completed her growth (when her body stop growing), which is around the age
of 20 years. Until the age of 20 can be used as guidelines for the physical
readiness. Pregnancy at a very early age and undesirable will lead to the
occurrence of the risks of pregnancy and childbirth as well as fetal risks.
The second impact is the danger of behavior and
psychological abuse, Sex will lead to occurrence of diseases of the sexual
disorders of desire to always have sex. The sufferer is always occupied his
time with various sexual fantasies-fantasy, Kiss, embrace, hugs, and a shadow-a
shadow form of the female body outside and inside. The sufferer being a
Slacker, it's hard to concentrate, often forgotten, listlessness, ngelamun, the
body so thin and psychological abuse become unstable. That is on his/her
mind only sex and sex as well as the
desire to vent his sexual lust. As a result when you got no friends for sex
free, he will go to prostitution and be a rapist. More ironic again when he
could not find adults as its victims, he does not hesitate rapes of children
under even the grandmother who has an excuse.
The third is the impact of the social danger, Sex will
also cause someone is no longer thought to found a family, have children, let
alone take up a responsibility. They just want to live above all liberties.
Worse yet a woman doing sex free will eventually fall into the Valley of
prostitution. A child who already exists as a result from free sex not getting
love from his father and his mother's caresses the softness. He will not get
enough attention and education. After he knew that he was born as a result of adultery,
then his or her psychiatric will become stiff and eliminated in the Association
and social community, often even he will be involved in the problem of
criminality. Even more ironic is often the father of a child born as a result
of free sex is not clear anymore who his father was. Free sex will also cause a
mess of his family and his unbroken string gathering and kinship. Parents
usually won't matter anymore in a child who has this far astray, otherwise a
teenager who feels not care about again by parents will be more desperate,
disobedience and wayward again in the elderly. He will also be involved in a
confrontation with other relatives. It is in the end can lead to a sense of
frustration , disappointment and resentment is not the end of the family
member.
That’s the impact of the impact that could happen on a
sex offender (free sex).
The conclusion of my essay : free sex is sex in violation
of the norms prevailing in Indonesia.
free sex occurs on a number of factors, namely: the factors of parents, friends
or immediate environment, money, a weak faith and was hooked. and when doing
free sex there is some harm that can occur if doing free sex include: disease
venereal disease (PMS, AIDS/HIV, unpreparedness women under to get pregnant),
the dangers of psychiatric and behavior, and social hazards. There are some
efforts to prevent the occurrence of free sex ,there are: the parents require
more in keeping his children who grow up and give new insight into sex and consequences
if doing free sex. Free sex can also prevent in through the desire itself, so
teens need to be more thought before doing it at least teenagers should further
enhance the faith. The Government also was instrumental in efforts to cope with
free sex among teenagers, such as conducting outreach in schools and make the
law specifically for young children who commit offences, so that the child will
be more thought before doing sex free.
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